Am I missing something?
Girl friend and I went to see C's band at the park last night (which he invited me to). We found a spot in the grass and we could see him by the stage, but I didn't feel comfortable approaching him. He eventually just approached us, and we chatted a few min. This was with one of the same friends with me at the show 2 weeks ago, where they swore he was sooo into me. Anyway, I had other friends show up and the park got crowded...so I was only able to chat with him one other time on a break, then again before we left.
My girl friend invited C to join us for an outing afterwards, but he said he would have to see how he felt because the band played 5 gigs this weekend alone and I could see he was absolutely exhausted. He was drinched in sweat and wiping himself with a towel the whole time. So after the show, he was pretty anxious to get home and relax and decided not to join us.
During the break, we talked music talk and he made me laugh as usual, my girl friend was there as a 3rd party convo, but most of the talking occurred b/tween he and I. I heard the band cover and INXS tune last time; and they had done another one last night. So during the break, I said "I love those INXS tunes"...then when they were on stage a few minutes later, they did yet ANOTHER one. I don't think they normally cover 2 songs by the same band in one set....I don't know but my friend has dated a lot of musicians and she was convinced he did that on purpose...I danced in the front of the stage and again, saw him staring at me countless amount of times - especially during the other INXS song, I was all smiles! At one point, he said "you should have came to ----'s last night, it was a great time!" - my friend and I did in fact consider going there but I didn't want to show up 2 nights in a row like a follower; but apparently he doesn't see it that way...the band doesn't have to do much to get fans to their shows - they have hundreds already; so it isn't as though he's pushing for promotion necessarily..
However on the way home, my friend kept saying "oh he is definitely interested"...what I saw was a repsectable guy cool enough to come over and say hi, and chat whenever we had the chance. And it WAS cool if he arranged that song for me, and its cool he likes it when I go see him, but I'm not seeing where my girl friend is getting the "definitely interested" part. She says nature is totally taking its course; and it feels like that in a way but I don't know...and now I"m a huge fan of the band, and I feel the addiction coming on that I"ve heard so much about with them. So now I DO want to go to more shows and I don't know if there is a line to draw between friends with the sax player/just a fan. I know its hard to have any insight when you are not there to see things happening; what is my girl friend seeing that I don't see? I used to think I knew a lot about guys..but I'm clueless.
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